Marriage, kids, and the friends we made along the way

Welcome to a candid look at the beautiful chaos of family life and enduring friendships. It's difficult yet incredibly rewarding, and we're here to share the journey.

I don't know how to not shout.

I grew up in a shouty household, my mum was stressed, she had several kids, several jobs and the weight of the world on her shoulders. So she snapped a lot, shouted, swore, was never wrong and would never apologise. 

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I don't know how to make friends.

Quite sad to admit as an adult but I don't know how to do it. I watch my children make friends, they play near each other, ask the others names and ask to play. My youngest has a more sinister technique of staring at the other child until they interact with them. Silent yet effective, but she's only little so we'll see how it plays out. 

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The beautiful juggle

Life throws a lot our way, and balancing marriage, raising kids, and keeping up with friends can feel like a constant juggling act. From sleepless nights with newborns to navigating teenage years, and still finding time for that overdue coffee with a friend, it’s a whirlwind. We often find ourselves asking, "How do others do it?" Well, here’s a peek into our own often hilarious, sometimes exhausting, but always heartfelt attempts at keeping all the balls in the air.

Friendships through the seasons

Friends are the chosen family, and maintaining those bonds alongside marital duties and parental responsibilities requires effort, understanding, and sometimes, just a really good group chat. We’ve learned that friendships evolve; some grow stronger, some shift, but all contribute to the rich tapestry of our lives. Discover stories of how we've navigated changes, celebrated successes, and leaned on each other through it all, proving that true friendships can withstand the tests of time and busy schedules.

Finding the joy in the everyday

Despite the challenges, the rewards of building a life with a partner, watching your children grow, and sharing moments with cherished friends are immeasurable. This space is dedicated to celebrating those small victories, the unexpected joys, and the lessons learned from every bump in the road. We hope you'll find these tales amusing, relatable, and perhaps a little comforting as you navigate your own unique journey without a guidebook.